Sexually transmitted infections, specifically HPV and HIV, are more easily passed on by uncut men—hence the extra need for attention to genital hygiene.
Imagine self-publishing with i Universe, and then receiving a phone call from a traditional publishing house—they want to pick up your book!
It isn't too good to be true, because it happened to some of our authors.
The notion that anal penetration is a sure way to avoid pregnancy is a myth that needs to be detonated. Uncovered anal penetration is the number one sexual activity that carries the highest risk of infection.
A penis thrusting into a tight dry hole that is contracting and resisting rather than expanding and inviting, is very likely going to cause the skin to tear.
In terms of men’s own pleasure, unfortunately some men get circumcised in the hope it will delay their ejaculation—which is not always the best idea, given that some men report enjoying the extra sensitivity they feel once cut, while others say they actually feel less sensitive without a foreskin. A few more tips for getting (and giving) better sex with an uncut man: Before oral sex, retract his foreskin so he can feel every sensation.
Use lube when you’re giving him a hand job; otherwise the movement can be painful. It’s also political, follows trends, and, as in your situation, impacts power dynamics in a relationship.
You’re supposed to feel the strings when you reach your fingers deep inside your vagina.
And in turn your boyfriend will also be able to feel these strings.
Personally, I think lying with legs spread in front of a stranger wielding a hot pot of wax can be daunting, bizarrely intimate, and damn painful.
Politically, from a feminist perspective, you know it’s your hair, your body, and your genitals; thus your right to determine how much or how little of it there is. The media exposes us to all kinds of repeated images of smooth vulvas clearly visible in tight jeans, bikini bottoms, and Victoria’s Secret panties—which then become idealized and normalized.
By the way, keep condoms on hand because if you enjoy anal as well as vaginal penetration, you need to change condoms when you switch orifices.