I bet everyone wants to know what I believe a Non-African woman should know before dating an African men. Okay before I begin let me just say: Am I saying all African men are the same? Here’s a list of what you can expect so you are well prepared: 1) Henny, dark liquor, Stout, or Heinkein or other heavy beers are their drink of choice. Oyinbo/Akata: Have at least a case in your house, if your man drinks alcohol and comes to your place and sees you have some, he will be a happy man. No African man is always going to want to do take out or go to a restaurant all the time. 3) Meat and fish are your best friend: I don’t care, I have yet to meet an African man that doesn’t like meat or fish. However, our fine brothers have started looking into other ethnicities and are beginning to date interracially (putting their chocolate cookie in sugar cookies, raisin cookies, and Macadamia cookies) and it’s okay. There are lots of handsome men out there, in different continents and countries so I’m here to give advice on some things a Non African woman should have in the back of her head when dating an African man. A Nigerian man loves with his belly amongst other things. Oyinbo/Akata: Cook your favorite meals, make sure it’s good, Nigerian men are spoiled by the sweet taste of their mother’s cooking so you are going to have to put that work in the kitchen.In a sense, the ones who make it here are the ones who are willing to make big sacrifices to gain a chance at prosperity. They have a more balanced perspective Even if you’re dating a Nigerian Prince (we’ve all come across those, haven’t we?
This situation leads to emigration and brain drain.Chances are, you’ve already made an assumption about the nature of this post. This is not a post telling you to date an African man over an African-American man. It is about giving our motherland brothers a chance.Chances are your potential African boo not only has family and friends back in his homeland but also has folks all over the world like Dubai, London, Australia and Germany.Africans are all over the place and they generally go where there’s opportunity, which makes for an interesting sprouting of communities.Nigerian men are crazy but that’s only because they love hard.
As much as they might be a pain in your butt or do things that might frustrate you, an African man has all the capability of loving and treating a woman like a queen. Square warned you in 2007 about me, well now I’m here and have no plans on leaving.
This is not desired by most of the American/European women due to our economic status, environmental conditions and poor economic development.
However, a Nigerian man marrying an American or European women means an opportunity for him to leave his parental family and country and naturalize in abroad.
I don’t know why maybe it’s they want to have that drink as their “special drink” because it’s one of the few drinks most women wouldn’t necessarily see as their drink of choice. When you cook, you must add chicken, goat, turkey, or fish in a man’s food, if not it’s not a complete meal.
I’m serious Give him a plate of rice without meat or fish and see his face. M want to show how they are a man, they could show it through their fortunes, how they treats you, or by their religious and mental level. Nigerian men have big ego and for some enough pride to stretch from here to China.
Since many African men need to survive on their own when they migrate out of their homelands, many of them know how to keep themselves fed.